We've all been there. You crush on him, and he doesn't even know you exist. As much as you seem to make yourself noticable, he acts as if you were invisible. Then, after awhile, you mature and move on. You realize he wasn't worth all the fuss, and forget about him after a month.
Though have you ever thought about it the other way around? That there is someone out there who likes you? Well guess what? There is! There is someone out there who loves you! Who cares for you! That someone is up in heaven, and has been watching out for you ever since you step foot on this planet.
God is waiting. He is waiting for you to realize that you don't need to go searching for a lover. He is waiting for you to come to Him when you are ready. He will wait. He will wait because you are just that special to Him. The moment you give your heart to Him, He will love you forever. Isn't that the kind of relationship you want?
I'm not saying that you have to become a nun and never marry. God will bring the right guy into your life. So don't waste your time searching for him. Live your life! Because if you spend your time sitting in a tower, you'll miss out on some really great adventures! And who knows, maybe the guy for you is right around the corner!